Dating a married man for 3 years
The guy who is your boyfriend has absolutely zero courage to stand up for himself, and say his wife that he will not tolerate her abusive nature and will leave the marriage .
" If he cant stand up for himself how he can stand up for you ?
" I feel sorry for you but you are a little sister to me , so i advise you to leave this guy as soon as possible, whatever he did for you is only for his selfish reasons and don't fall for guys who are in a relationship or has an ex girlfriend in the back ground because you will only get hurt, when i was young i made a lot of mistakes likes this but it only back fired me , it is the worst place to be in this world.
Grieve for your loss, completely block him from your life , go to a different city, be independent , get a job , get a single and nice guy who will be your boyfriend and will love you and can give you a better future.
If he is content to have sex with you and makes no move to make a permanent life with you, then you must understand that he does not see you as being very important. If you were with a man who you were not having sex with and who you did not love, and you had this man on the side who you truly did love and had a great connection with, would you be content to go home to the man you did not really want, knowing that your lover is single and could easily find someone who is available for him full time?
as soon as MM say that they can't leave because of the children, the mistress is basically think he is making a sacrifice. she understands y he can't leave when its really not the reason.
My answer may sound hurtful but i don't blow sunshine and roses , i give the truth wherever it is required.
I know you are very young and bound to make mistakes, it feels miserable in a home where there is absolutely no love and respect it affects the children , they become more insecure, and treat themselves as not worthy to be loved.
My ex's wife abuses him in all aspect, but refuses to leave her. After all that's been said and done to him, all along he really did not have any inclination in leaving her. so what is the reason for staying with a woman he doesn't love. If he cheated on the woman he chose to marry what makes you think he wouldn't do you the same??
Maybe I look stupid and naïve, but I am so grateful to my MM for giving me so much happiness!!! I didn't push him to divorce, but I am dreaming about our future together... They're situations been like this long before I came along. To be completely honest..shouldn't be too surprised.